Showering

My husband and I were talking earlier about showering...together. He said that showering together is an intimate act. This brief statement got me thinking about my past. How many people have I showered with?!?! I was surprised at the answer. See, I had previously categorized the people I dated in the past: "obsessives" and "non-obsessives." I thought that the people that I weren't obsessed over were better mates, more compatible...However, this simple statement about showering really messed up my thought process. I have showered with more of my "obsessives." How could this be? If showering together is an intimate act, which I believe it is, how could I do it with people that I was infatuated with.